Christian Dating Rules

Our concepts of frames? Most of the dating concepts that choose in our minds by what we see in the movies, talk shows, soap, etc., but it is for us to hold in the world of form are formed. Romans 0:02 says: ". No longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is the will of God - the good and acceptable and perfect will." So, how can this verse from? It is very easy to let the world, the media, the people around us, etc. tell us what we are standards to live or not, we allow the Bible to guide us?

The Bible is the "Word of God" that all the information we need in our lives. Are we ready to lead us to God in this area of ​​dating? Although the Bible does not explicitly list a set of Christian dating rules there are several guidelines for us, who helps us in the same

Christian Dating

The primary question, "you should be informed in the first place?" is only you can answer for yourself. The simple reason is, there is no information about dating or not from the Bible. Dating is a cultural concept and accepted as your culture dating, then it's not such a big problem. However, many of the regions in the world do not accept appointments as morally acceptable practice. For example, in the United States, dating is a very common practice, but in countries like India, Pakistan, Arab countries, etc. Dating is not generally accepted, as it is in the West. Christian openly in some regions for singles who can pray for a life partner. Various Christian dating sites available where Christian singles connect and examined their soulmates.

Let us look what the Bible say about relationships and marriage. The rules are made by God to place a burden on us or intimidate us, instead of helping us secure borders for us so we do not get lost. So let's open up your soul!

Establish justice focus
If God's first love, or not up to date. It's that simple! Young people will love their girlfriend or boyfriend just end up unhappy. You can not search for a relationship, love, rather than just in a relationship, if you can give love. If you feel empty and looking for someone to fill this gap, the solution is not dating. If your girlfriend or boyfriend is also in search of love, but of love, then it is a total disaster!

You can only unconditional love as Jesus flood your heart with love. Imagine the two of you try to draw water from a well, others think it is to fill the well, only to find that every time the bucket is empty. If you do not disappear over a relationship without love and security in Jesus, to the glory of being in love, you will be surrounded in fits of frustration. The two you will realize you are not made for each other, and move to wait for another. It is a pathetic vicious cycle.

If you are empty, go to church and read the Bible. Let Jesus to fill you with his eternal love. Imagine a person rooted in Christ to guide and help. So it is important to have the right focus while out. Now only if you have the ability to give love. Follow them and you will enjoy your time out of it. And if you do not want to end in marriage dating date. Dating for the purpose of temporary fun is not right. Just check your intentions and then move forward. Do not put the cart before the bull, and everything will be fine!

Who should today
If Jesus is the first love of your life and fill your heart with his love, then the next question, "Who should you do today?" The Bible gives clear guidance on this. 2 Corinthians 6:14 says, "Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers, for what do righteousness and wickedness have or what fellowship has light with darkness.?" In simple words Date means non-believers. Just because we are born into Christian families, does not mean that we are Christians. Yes, called the Christians in the eyes of the world, we are sure, but we can only call ourselves Christians if we have a personal commitment to Jesus Christ, our faith in Him and confess that he is God.

While you have to look if you are both the same tense. Is he or she a believer of Jesus Christ? He or she has a personal connection? Cling. To the hope that one day she may be to convert and lead him to Christ It is a common mistake that people make. You feel after getting married to the person he or she can change their spouse. Do not attempt to modify or remove any person. This person will only hate you even more insulted Christianity and Christians. So, be connected only to the faithful. How is this important? Well, look at the example of two horses, with a rope on one leg of each horse. If you place two stacks of hay on different sides and let the horses go and have their meal, what happens? If a horse is launched "A" and the second horse would start "B" and both are equally stubborn and refuse to eat want to give food, what will be the result?

It is easy, both on foot in the direction of the respective field, but because the cord can not reach them bind them their hay. And the line they will bind only rub its way into their skin and cause them to hurt and bleed. This is exactly what happens in a marriage binds two people of different faiths, different principles. It is not that the people of the two religions are not able to live together, dozens of people are unevenly connected, but we forfeited that only the blessings that God had in store for us, we got married a person in his will . Pray for the person you are interested in dating. Bring it to God and ask God if he or she is in his perfect will. Pray that the doors close, if he or she is not the right person for you. God will never believe. You can marry whomever you want, it's your choice. It is your choice if you want to find God's will in this area. Trust God's decision. He gives you the "best"!

Drawing the lines
See the world does not sleep with your date as a big deal. In fact, live-in relationships are so widely recognized that the covenant of marriage is no longer considered important before a man and woman together. Adultery, fornication, etc. by the way, that it is so easy these days to have young people and sucked into the pit of sexual sin considered. The Bible makes it clear in 1 Corinthians 6: 18: "Flee from sexual immorality All other sins a man commits outside his body, but he sins against his own body you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit .. who is sexually within you and to have received from God you are not your own: you were bought at a price therefore glorify God in your body "..

So, it is clear that some is a sin in marriage, sexual relations. Sexual sin has serious consequences, so playing child. The best way to avoid temptation in this area, is meeting in the place where one can be alone to avoid. Go to crowded places or hang out with other couples. We are all human and all are vulnerable. By avoiding remote locations, you can actually block any room to take the temptation. Remember that even if you both love each other and promise to marry, not just sex before marriage. The order is: love, marriage, sex, love, sex and marriage. Glory of God in your relationship, and he will honor you and your spouse.

These are just three of the basic Christian dating rules. If the foundation is corrected, the building is constructed it true. Bring your heart's desires before God's throne, and see how he bless your life!