Dating a man who actually want a serious , long-term relationship is not always easy. And frankly , it's a slightly different dynamic than from a player or an alpha male should be to sit down and commit "persuaded " . The nice guy (but not too pretty !) Would you like a bet and already likes you.
However, this does not necessarily mean that your struggle is over. Long term relationship guys have their own set of questions, and they are not always easy to live . You can also passive aggressive , self-sabotage or various spiritual issues to fight, such as anger, sarcasm or even complete shutout , when it comes to sharing feelings .
What better way to communicate with this kind of " service provider " for a peaceful, quiet relationship ? Consider a few tips .
As a man thinks LTR
First, understand that even if you . Having a man who wants a serious relationship and not cheat , and although he looks incredibly beautiful, he has comfort boundaries , as everyone This type of man, and to a certain extent , most people meet in relationships , do not want to talk about their feelings . It can be good to complain or joke or even saying something like "I love you " or even " I love you. " It does not mean that they are comfortable with an open, raw emotion .
Jealousy issues
Therefore, you can immediately see that the communication to use with your man and interpretation of his words of his mind , it will be difficult . A LTR type of man is also very territorial , with the " provider" type of personality . He thinks of you as his family and is often very protective of outsiders or other people with whom you regularly spoken . It can be passive aggressive or even openly aggressive than he thinks you flirt . The best defense is to stay calm and reassure him that it's okay for the two of you to find other people attractive, but your commitment to each other is strong.
Behavior control
Another apology from the modern woman on the nice guy today that he often seems to control. The idea of a dominant man may seem offensive to you and rightly so, since it's not the kind of relationship you want. This does not necessarily control trends of your husband bad news. He wants to control things , because it makes him feel good, even better, it makes him feel as if he will protect you from the world. The best thing to do, as this behavior is too much to bear to talk things up and remind him that you appreciate your freedom and independence. He should begin to trust you more , and less micromanagement .
Last but not least , do not resist his male ego or his teddy bear. Providers want to be men , male, civilized and tough. There is no reason overly critical of this. And prepare touched ( or prepare to talk with him about Touch ) will , which is for his touchy feely behavior a sign of love and commitment. Limits set in advance would be a good precedent that they do not disturb the natural atmosphere of the room .
There is nothing wrong with a man who wants a long term relationship , if he be wise , kind and above all a thrill . So make sure that you know what makes him tick !
However, this does not necessarily mean that your struggle is over. Long term relationship guys have their own set of questions, and they are not always easy to live . You can also passive aggressive , self-sabotage or various spiritual issues to fight, such as anger, sarcasm or even complete shutout , when it comes to sharing feelings .
What better way to communicate with this kind of " service provider " for a peaceful, quiet relationship ? Consider a few tips .
As a man thinks LTR
First, understand that even if you . Having a man who wants a serious relationship and not cheat , and although he looks incredibly beautiful, he has comfort boundaries , as everyone This type of man, and to a certain extent , most people meet in relationships , do not want to talk about their feelings . It can be good to complain or joke or even saying something like "I love you " or even " I love you. " It does not mean that they are comfortable with an open, raw emotion .
Jealousy issues
Therefore, you can immediately see that the communication to use with your man and interpretation of his words of his mind , it will be difficult . A LTR type of man is also very territorial , with the " provider" type of personality . He thinks of you as his family and is often very protective of outsiders or other people with whom you regularly spoken . It can be passive aggressive or even openly aggressive than he thinks you flirt . The best defense is to stay calm and reassure him that it's okay for the two of you to find other people attractive, but your commitment to each other is strong.
Behavior control
Another apology from the modern woman on the nice guy today that he often seems to control. The idea of a dominant man may seem offensive to you and rightly so, since it's not the kind of relationship you want. This does not necessarily control trends of your husband bad news. He wants to control things , because it makes him feel good, even better, it makes him feel as if he will protect you from the world. The best thing to do, as this behavior is too much to bear to talk things up and remind him that you appreciate your freedom and independence. He should begin to trust you more , and less micromanagement .
Last but not least , do not resist his male ego or his teddy bear. Providers want to be men , male, civilized and tough. There is no reason overly critical of this. And prepare touched ( or prepare to talk with him about Touch ) will , which is for his touchy feely behavior a sign of love and commitment. Limits set in advance would be a good precedent that they do not disturb the natural atmosphere of the room .
There is nothing wrong with a man who wants a long term relationship , if he be wise , kind and above all a thrill . So make sure that you know what makes him tick !
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