Finding a good friend when a teenager is a different animal than the search for when you get older. Obtaining a good friend can be difficult when people are more set in their ways .
But there are universal truths for all ages - the first is your behavior : You need a good friend to keep a good friend. And that means the approval of the same characteristics that you look for in your prince .
Self-control
You want a friend, be faithful , that is not cheating . And to achieve this, you need a friend has at least one molecule of self-control . Otherwise it will cut some time walking the next cool thing in his direction. It does not matter how much your friend confessed his love for you, it can not be true . A friend who display self-control is one that you can trust, and if you trust your friend , you have a better, more secure relationship . Find out that he is " in" attention to you instead of constantly wandering eyes .
Chastity
This property refers to the willingness to give your husband to work on the relationship . A conscientious person is to you , it can motivate the best duo. He will talk through problems until you are both satisfied . Keep an honor friend he promises . If you , your honor friend to follow through a plan to have a day trip next weekend with the plan. Not to be confused spontaneity conscientiousness. Your friend will take you into the mountains for a hike , a fraction of a moment can be fun and exciting , but not much to tell , if he adhere to the plans that you have both .
Good communication skills
As you and your friend communicate with each other make or break the relationship . Behavior in dating laid the foundation for future display. A good friend wants to find out about what you want you want to tell all about him and that you have something special. He has generous with compliments and out through the discussion that the two of you that you can share both enjoy . When problems occur , the possibility to discuss what is wrong, without a heated debate critical for the success of your partnership .
Commotion
No one wants a boring friend or a relationship that had fallen into a boring routine. This can lead to a desire to fade too quickly for your honey . A good friend is a little mysterious and comes with surprises that encourage you to keep. Most girls appreciate the idea swept away by her handsome prince and a friend with an exciting date night or a small gift come without reason , is sure to please . You do not want all the time to avoid surprises , though - it would be no surprise if it happens.
Romance
Romance is an important part of a relationship and proximity and offers share between the two of you . If there is no romance, suffers the entire relationship . With romance , both are happy and enjoy every aspect of your time together . The physical aspect of romance is important and includes all physical contact designed to provide comfort including touching , keep stroking, hugging, kissing , massaging hands . At the beginning of a healthy relationship Bar usually with wild passion and a huge enthusiasm . Since this behavior is usually fade over time , it is important to early existence.
Confidence in you
Although your friend to an interest in what you should do if you do it , you do not want it . Control over what you do not If he trusts you , you are free to enjoy a life separate from him. One friend who does not trust you bothered with questions , displays jealousy, look at history over the phone and text and generally make you feel uncomfortable . This kind of guy can get angry and violent if you want to have a life separate from his . If your boyfriend to trust your decisions when you are away from it , you have something to share with your sweetheart when you are together.
Sense of humor
It is for you and your friend laughing together important. This is a good way to relieve stress and put you in a good mood. Laughter makes the two of you closer together . If you share an experience and laugh , create intimacy. Laughter also produce a number of health benefits : boosting your mood , reducing stress, lowering blood pressure and relaxes you. But a sense of humor only works when you are both in the joke . You do not want a man who makes fun of you - it hurts the relationship . If your friend is not very funny, he can share humor with you by watching funny movies with you , listening to comedians and even by playing with your pets.
Structural behavior
You can not expect your friend to read your mind to determine how best to support you , but you can expect him to support it, if you tell him what you need . You want to encourage your friend to have confidence in you and help solve problems. You do not want a guy that unsolicited advice , however, or just tell you what to do . Even if your friend does not answer , just there to have to hear all the support .
Good hygiene
Nothing can kill intimacy faster than a guy with poor hygiene. If you do not want to because of a bad breath or if you do not to kiss him near him because of his body odor your relationship. The way your friend smell also plays a big role in your level of attraction. This is what is meant by . " Chemistry" as a relationship counselor Dr. Ian Kerner once said, " Follow your nose , it always knows ! "
Financially responsible
Your friend does not have to be a millionaire , but he has to show some financial responsibility. Arguments over finances is one of the main reasons why marriages break up . If your boyfriend has accumulated a lot of debt , you can not expect to improve their financial situation after you tie the knot much . Being in debt can mean your husband is irresponsible and can not manage his behavior. If he handles money well if you go, you can probably count on him to be a good provider for the family.
But there are universal truths for all ages - the first is your behavior : You need a good friend to keep a good friend. And that means the approval of the same characteristics that you look for in your prince .
Self-control
You want a friend, be faithful , that is not cheating . And to achieve this, you need a friend has at least one molecule of self-control . Otherwise it will cut some time walking the next cool thing in his direction. It does not matter how much your friend confessed his love for you, it can not be true . A friend who display self-control is one that you can trust, and if you trust your friend , you have a better, more secure relationship . Find out that he is " in" attention to you instead of constantly wandering eyes .
Chastity
This property refers to the willingness to give your husband to work on the relationship . A conscientious person is to you , it can motivate the best duo. He will talk through problems until you are both satisfied . Keep an honor friend he promises . If you , your honor friend to follow through a plan to have a day trip next weekend with the plan. Not to be confused spontaneity conscientiousness. Your friend will take you into the mountains for a hike , a fraction of a moment can be fun and exciting , but not much to tell , if he adhere to the plans that you have both .
Good communication skills
As you and your friend communicate with each other make or break the relationship . Behavior in dating laid the foundation for future display. A good friend wants to find out about what you want you want to tell all about him and that you have something special. He has generous with compliments and out through the discussion that the two of you that you can share both enjoy . When problems occur , the possibility to discuss what is wrong, without a heated debate critical for the success of your partnership .
Commotion
No one wants a boring friend or a relationship that had fallen into a boring routine. This can lead to a desire to fade too quickly for your honey . A good friend is a little mysterious and comes with surprises that encourage you to keep. Most girls appreciate the idea swept away by her handsome prince and a friend with an exciting date night or a small gift come without reason , is sure to please . You do not want all the time to avoid surprises , though - it would be no surprise if it happens.
Romance
Romance is an important part of a relationship and proximity and offers share between the two of you . If there is no romance, suffers the entire relationship . With romance , both are happy and enjoy every aspect of your time together . The physical aspect of romance is important and includes all physical contact designed to provide comfort including touching , keep stroking, hugging, kissing , massaging hands . At the beginning of a healthy relationship Bar usually with wild passion and a huge enthusiasm . Since this behavior is usually fade over time , it is important to early existence.
Confidence in you
Although your friend to an interest in what you should do if you do it , you do not want it . Control over what you do not If he trusts you , you are free to enjoy a life separate from him. One friend who does not trust you bothered with questions , displays jealousy, look at history over the phone and text and generally make you feel uncomfortable . This kind of guy can get angry and violent if you want to have a life separate from his . If your boyfriend to trust your decisions when you are away from it , you have something to share with your sweetheart when you are together.
Sense of humor
It is for you and your friend laughing together important. This is a good way to relieve stress and put you in a good mood. Laughter makes the two of you closer together . If you share an experience and laugh , create intimacy. Laughter also produce a number of health benefits : boosting your mood , reducing stress, lowering blood pressure and relaxes you. But a sense of humor only works when you are both in the joke . You do not want a man who makes fun of you - it hurts the relationship . If your friend is not very funny, he can share humor with you by watching funny movies with you , listening to comedians and even by playing with your pets.
Structural behavior
You can not expect your friend to read your mind to determine how best to support you , but you can expect him to support it, if you tell him what you need . You want to encourage your friend to have confidence in you and help solve problems. You do not want a guy that unsolicited advice , however, or just tell you what to do . Even if your friend does not answer , just there to have to hear all the support .
Good hygiene
Nothing can kill intimacy faster than a guy with poor hygiene. If you do not want to because of a bad breath or if you do not to kiss him near him because of his body odor your relationship. The way your friend smell also plays a big role in your level of attraction. This is what is meant by . " Chemistry" as a relationship counselor Dr. Ian Kerner once said, " Follow your nose , it always knows ! "
Financially responsible
Your friend does not have to be a millionaire , but he has to show some financial responsibility. Arguments over finances is one of the main reasons why marriages break up . If your boyfriend has accumulated a lot of debt , you can not expect to improve their financial situation after you tie the knot much . Being in debt can mean your husband is irresponsible and can not manage his behavior. If he handles money well if you go, you can probably count on him to be a good provider for the family.
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